Julie 1-844-332-2639 Ext 453
Dr. Julie, what should I do? I feel like I’ve been so dumb. I’ve wasted so many years. I truly loved her. I gave up my fetishes for her because she thought they were wrong. But I wanted her to be happy, so I happily settled for vanilla sex. Then after having kids, she didn’t want sex at all. She wanted to stay home with them, so I happily agreed to be the sole provider for our family. I worked sixty to eighty hour weeks in order to make it work. I had many women come onto me over the years. But even though our marriage was sexless, I never cheated on her. I’m not saying I wasn’t tempted. It felt so good to get attention and to feel wanted. But I could not imagine doing anything that would hurt her.
After everything I’ve done for her, she repays me by having an affair, then leaving me for him. I’m just so lost and don’t know what to do. A part of me wants to go have sex with a random woman just to get revenge. But I could never do that. That’s just not like me.